A REFLECTION FOR THE 24TH SUNDAY AFTER PENTECOST
Today’s
Gospel about mustard seeds makes me think about the garden my parents used to
work at so tirelessly throughout the year.
They didn’t grow mustard, mind you, but we had a garden in the front of
the house where my father cultivated his roses, helped along with some natural but
very unpleasant fertilizer that he made me pick up with my little wheelbarrow
every time a horse and cart went past.
Meanwhile, in the other garden behind our home, there was a greenhouse filled
with tomatoes and other edible things that made their way to my mother’s salads
and into her homemade wine.
Many
of us will probably have similar memories of our parents and the care they took
to grow flowers, plants, fruit and vegetables.
It was one of those “nice” things they did, and we remember them with
fondness. But the attention they paid to
gardening was nothing compared with the careful and continual devotion they
gave to the raising of their children—us.
We
were their little mustard seeds, and they watched us grow from “the least of
all seeds” into what they hoped would be the “greatest among herbs.” And how did that work out? Have we grown up and fulfilled their ambitions
for us? Have we truly become something
they would be proud of? We’re a work in
process, so let’s not give up on becoming what they hoped we would be. As we become adults we must take over the cultivation
of our souls by practicing the values and virtues they instilled in us, by maintaining
the faith they taught us. And then we
must pass on the same faith and values to our own children, raising our own
little mustard seeds in our turn.
This
is our gravest duty as parents. We have
a natural instinct to protect our children from harm, but this instinct must be
reinforced and surpassed by a supernatural impulse to protect them from the
devil, the world, and their own fallen nature.
Our own experience of life tells us that there is no way they are going
to escape the assaults of all three. Our
battle will be their battle and our victories must become their victories. But with the help of God, we must protect
them from repeating our failures. If we
have not lived up to our parents’ dreams, we must at least do our utmost to
make sure their grandchildren do better.
Teach
the catechism, prepare them diligently for their First Communion and for their
Confirmation. Teach them the Bible stories
we learned at the feet of our own mother, pass on the Catholic customs and traditions
to the next generation so that they may continue to pass them on long after we
are gone. This is the Church’s garden, so
let’s not allow it to become overgrown with weeds and thistles.
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